A shared jar of ideas, drawn at random

The two of you already have ideas; the problem is remembering them on the night you have time. Both partners add to one jar whenever something occurs to them, sorted into a handful of categories, and the jar waits.

When neither of you wants to decide, draw. One idea comes out at random, and afterwards you can mark it tried, rate it, and leave a note — so the jar becomes a record of what you actually did rather than a list of intentions.

The jar is shared between the two partners only, and each of you can remove your own ideas.

• One shared jar; both partners add to it.
• Categories: romantic, playful, adventurous, intimate, other.
• Draw an idea at random when you cannot decide.
• Mark an idea tried, rate it, and add a note.
• Reciprocal partner setup; visible to nobody else in the household. Adults only.

Couples apps are for two adults in the household and are never visible to children.

Couples whose good ideas never survive to the evening they would have been good on.

Who can use it

The two adults in a couple

Where it works

Your household hub and shared Spaces

Price

Included with every household plan, with no per-app charge

• Date Night Planner
• Couple's Bucket List
• Desire Sync

• Staying connected as a couple when the logistics take over — Every conversation has become a handover about who collects whom. What to put in place so the two of you talk about something other than scheduling.

Intimacy Jar is one of the apps in the Chickadee Bandit library. Every household starts nearly empty and installs only what it uses; there is no per-app charge. Your data lives in your household's own private, encrypted database, with no ads and no data selling. Browse the Couples apps or read the source on GitHub.